Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Relationship: how much is too much?

we always say "not enough" or "never enough"...

a friend i met recently said maybe i did too much during my past relationships.  when we give too much in a relationship, that also could could a damage.  really??

how much is too much?

taking care of my partner's daughter as mine. took days off from work to take care of her when he was busy. was that too much?

had sleepless night taking care of him when he was sick.  was that too much?

being loyal all time when he needed a break from the relationship by going out with other girls before coming back to me. was that too much?

how much is too much? i would give my life my soul my time my energy for him.  maybe that was too much?

i listened to Bruno Mars when driving to work this morning - When I Was Your Man

"I should've bought you flowers"
"Should've gave you all my hours"
"Now you're dancing with another man"

i don't need flowers. and i don't need all your hours.  all i need is a good man who tells me that life isn't full of bread and butter. however he will be there to wipe my tears.  he will be there when others turn around.  he will be there to cheerish the moment of our life.

is that too much to ask for?